It's All In The Eyes

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I'm going to be cliche here and REMIND you that the eyes are the windows to the soul.  They are also a HUGE part of communication.  You can say more with your eyes than you can with a well written poem.  I mean, you can undress people with your eyes!  That's pretty powerful stuff.  So, it makes sense, you can hook pretty much anyone with the right eye contact.  It's all about projecting intention.  The eyes will do the rest of the talking on your behalf and much more eloquently than you could ever dream to.

There are 2 little branches of thought regarding lack of eye contact.  I know, when you're attracted to a guy, sometimes it is difficult to maintain eye contact without breaking out in a blush that will surely give you away.  Guys like that blush, if they notice it at all.  A lot of guys will think you're not interested in them if you don't make eye contact or that you're disgusted or bored by them.  I have found this to be true of the more insecure guys.  The more secure guys will think that you're just shy and modest.  I have yet to find a negative aspect of actually making eye contact and holding it.

Let's be clear here.  We're not talking about staring him down.  We're talking about maintaining eye contact just a little bit longer than necessary.  A little bit longer than you would a friend or acquaintance.  This short addition of locking eyes will trigger something akin to intrigue on his side, and now, you've essentially planted a seed of interest.  If he's an exceptionally aware person he'll notice that the eye contact was held, but most are not, and he will simply feel attracted without necessarily knowing why.  A lot of times this is all you have to do to get the guy to make the first move.  Sometimes you have to do a bit more, but this makes him feel things on his side without necessarily knowing that you're interested too.  It's a great start and a good foundation to allow the idea of a romantic relationship with you to grow in his mind of its own accord.

So, go out there are look at someone for a while!